Why You Attract Things You Don't Want In Your Life

Why You Attract Things You Don't Want In Your Life

Dr Raven Dolick MsD

Apr 3, 2016

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It may be the basic fact, you may be responsible for all the stuff that you don't want in your life.

I know it sounds crazy, but that is what is happening. All of your negative thoughts and worries contribute to your miserable life. Expect your day to go badly, and chances are your attitude alone will guarantee it.

This all happens on a largely subconscious level, and it is hard to catch yourself doing it. With a little awareness and practice, however, you can align your thoughts with positive action and find more success and happiness.

The Law of Attraction operates on a "like attracts like" principle where what you put your focus on will grow. Think about good things and that's what you'll get, but if you focus on bad things too much, they will manifest as well.

When the universe is granting us our intentions, dreams or wishes, it doesn't know what is bad or good for you. It just answers your request. Therefore, it is extremely important to look at your everyday thoughts.

The following tips will help you make the Law of Attraction work for you and keep you from accidentally missing out on the life that could be yours. In just a few minutes a day, you can change your thinking and begin to effortlessly achieve.

* Shift Your Focus

It is easy to concentrate on the negative. We are hard-wired to seek out danger and try to fix problems. However, the universe does not see negative or positive. Things are what they are, and it has no preference. Very Zen.

So if you are focusing on "I don't want to be poor," you are reinforcing the concept of poverty. Each time you think it, it comes with images and feelings of what that might be like. Dwell on it long enough, and it will become your reality.

Begin thinking positively so that you are putting energy into the right thing. "I am earning $100,000," is the way to attract wealth, rather than trying to avoid the opposite. Which one feels more powerful to you?

* Actions Speak Louder Than Words

In order for the Law of Attraction to work, you need to give the universe a little help and this is The Main Reason it doesn't work in your life. If you want to be a famous singer, don't expect your intentions to just manifest a career. A music producer probably won't find you at the drive-thru in your hometown.

Being discovered and offered a contract takes some effort on your part too. Set up smaller goals, such as get an agent or find 10 new auditions and intend that those go well. You have to want it, and then go get it.

* You've Got to Feel It

When you are sending out intentions about what you want to manifest, you need to put some feeling into it. The request for a new car will have more power if you also have some positive energy surrounding it.

Think about what you want and actually feel the emotion that goes with it. See yourself behind the wheel of your new car, happy and secure. Know what it would feel like to pull into your parking space at work with shiny new wheels.

It's not enough just to imagine or say how you would feel, but you need to actually get into those emotions while you're visualizing your goal. The more real your feelings, the more real the possibility of achieving becomes.

* Persistence Pays Off

Once you have cleaned up your thinking and put some positive effort into your intention, don't stop there. It takes some time for your physiology to really resonate with what you want and start attracting it.

It's easy to get discouraged when things don't instantly manifest, but that doesn't mean it won't happen. You probably are making little steps along the way that will lead to your goal; you just don't see it.

Over time your dedication will pay off. You just need to consistently focus on what you want, and be patient with the universe. Good things happen in mysterious ways, so keep looking. You'll find them.

* Create an Attraction Plan

Now that you know what to do, let's put a plan into action. You will need to set aside some time each day in a quiet place where you won't be disturbed. On a small table, light a candle and place a picture of your goal next to it.

Write down your goal on a small index card. Be specific about what you DO want and how it would feel to have it. Make an affirmation about your goal, such as, "I am attracting wealth every day," and repeat it out loud a few times.

Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Visualize your goal. Start from the beginning, and mentally walk yourself through every step toward your goal. Allow your emotions to come up and really feel them.

Spend several minutes feeling and intending. Be specific; get into every detail about the goal. When you see yourself achieving it, hold on to that feeling. Let it resonate through you. Open your eyes, and take a deep breath.

Do this twice a day, and you will notice that everything will begin to shift around this goal. The opportunities you need to achieve it will magically appear. Your life will open up to receive it. Just watch it unfold.

I know it sounds both too easy and too hard to accomplish, but that is exactly the thinking that will keep you from realizing your goal. You can change your thinking, and find the time to do it. It's possible; believe me.

By the way, did you know that you can create your own reality with the Law of Attraction?

This is exactly what happens when you use The Laws that govern attracting likes to your world.